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potret perempuan dalam kasus perkosaan

seorang anak perempuan diperkosa 14 orang teman sebayanya hingga tewas hingga tewas tewas kasusnya kalah gaung dibanding hiruk pikuk calon gubernur DKI Jakarta atau kasus korupsi yang melibatkan petinggi negara 14 orang pemuda itu dihukum 15 tahun penjara dan akan keluar kelak ketika berumur 30 an 1 orang perempuan belia kehilangan nyawanya dengan tragis dan hukum belum bisa melindungi perempuan perempuan...
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The Journey of Finding a Home

"home is where our story began"             anonim Mencari rumah dengan lokasi yang memuaskan dan budget terbatas itu sungguh-sungguh susah.. Beruntungnya hidup di era teknologi informasi yang cukup maju, ada banyak informasi tentang rumah yang bisa didapatkan di dunia maya, sebut saja situs-situs macam...
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we were judged not by what we said but by what we did

Pilkada nampaknya menjadi hal yang banyak dibincangkan di banyak daerah, demikian halnya dengan pemilu presiden yang tinggal menunggu bulan saja. Ups.. saya tidak akan berbicara tentang pemilu dan kandidatnya. Saya hanya ingin berefleksi sejenak tentang hidup saya (again????). Pertemuan saya dengan beberapa orang, membuat...
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Doing Gender in Online Games

Do you play online games? Online Games are one of the most popular leisure activities, not only for children, teenagers but also adult. It’s becoming one of the most eye-catching parts of social phenomenon in the last decade. In my leisure time, sometimes I play games online but I’m not games online addict. I usually did it when I’m stress out or saturated, and I haven’t think about the relation...
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sisterhood

“We're connected, as women. It's like a spiderweb. If one part of that web vibrates, if there's trouble, we all know it, but most of the time we're just too scared, or selfish, or insecure to help. But if we don't help each other, who will?” ― Sarah Addison Allen, The Peach Keeper Merriam Webster Dictionary defined sisterhood as the solidarity of women based on shared conditions,...
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prettiness

Pretty.. may be everyday we watch, hear or listen the commercials tell how to be prettier. Some people try to look prettier, whether using whitening cream, having plastic surgery, etc. Have we ever questioning the notion of pretty? The idea of pretty in somehow is imposed by the capitalism, like in my country prettiness is having straight long hair, fair skin, and thin. Yesterday I came across to...
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I will never love you more

Accidentally I come across to that video on YouTube. It's has cute lyric rite? I never love you more than, by Soko, a French singer. This is the lyric: I will never love you more than the drummer of Flaming LipsI will never love you more than Woody Allen moviesI will never love you more than the White album of the BeatlesI will never love you more than God only knowsI will never love you...
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